Hi, these days I'm posting natively on Dreamwidth. I read in LJ, DW, and Google Reader, so if I've defriended you here it's only because I'm reading you somewhere else and don't need to see your posts in two different places. :-) I very rarely post friends-locked posts anyway.
If you want to friend me, I'm cool with it. If I've friended you and you don't know who I am it's because I think your stuff is awesome and want to subscribe to your newsletter.